The Decision Maker
Worksheet
Step 1: Define your decision
Take a moment to define the
decision you are trying to make in writing. By getting your thoughts down on
paper, you can often gain new insight into the situation. Remember the old
saying that a problem well stated is a problem half solved.

Step
2: Identify your Real Objective
Whenever we are faced with a decision,
there is usually something that we are looking to obtain. For example if you
are trying to decide whether to leave your current job and go back to
University to do further study, your real objective may be, 'To have a
fulfilling and stimulating career'. Ask yourself, what are you really
trying to obtain by making this decision?

Step 3: Write down your options
Identify
each of your options and write them down below

Step 4: Pros and Cons analysis
For
each option, list down as many pros and cons as you can think of.
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Step 5: Identify the right person and ask
for advice
Do you know anyone
who has faced a similar decision to the one you are facing at the moment?
Ideally you should
try and find someone who has gone on to achieve the real objective that you are
trying to obtain.
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Step
6: Pray and/or meditate on your decision
Praying or quiet meditation is a great way
to remove the stress that can often accompany a difficult decision. Find a
quiet spot where you won't be disturbed. Close your eyes and focus on your
breathing. As you become more relaxed, present your decision to God or the
Universal mind and ask for guidance.

Step 7: Which
option do you believe has the best chance of leading you to your Real
Objective?
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Step 8: Commit to your decision
Set a date to take
action on your decision and identify exactly what your first action is going to
be.
